How do I know this, you may ask? I tell people I just had a tattoo placed on
my bicep…and wait for the expressions. The immediate ones are either pleasant
surprise and genuine curiosity, or a frown of disapproval. Some take a little more time for the thought
to register, largely because on the surface I don’t seem the type to have a
tattoo. Yet, that is precisely one of
the reasons I did get one. Among other
things, I take a certain pleasure in shaking another’s impression of who I
am. On the surface I may look fairly
traditional, with my hair (or what’s left of it) cut short in a conservative
style and my dress mainly of a business nature.
I adhere to the philosophy that one cannot…should not, judge a book by
its cover. We are often admonished that
beauty is only skin deep and we should look beneath the surface to find the
real person.
People get tattoos for a multitude of reasons. Many do so to memorialize important events or
others that had an effect on them (hence the plethora of “Mom’s”). Butterflies are popular among young people to
symbolize surviving a difficult period of life through the emergence from a cocoon. Aside from the delight of shaking another’s
perception of who I seem to be, I also like the idea of a symbol that
represents a special time, or in my case a special trip. Many of you recall I travelled to Kenya,
Africa in 2009. Without going into the
specifics of that trip, I was deeply moved.
One of my traveling companions on that trip had many tattoos, and I was
intrigued by them. Before I boarded the
plane to return to the US, the seed had been planted that I would want one to
symbolize that experience.
The challenge then became what the symbol should be. Of the 1200-plus images I took on the trip, I
settled on a photo of a rhinoceros…one we had driven far to find, and a rare
sight even in the Kenyan wildlife reserve.
That photo became the symbol, pictured here:
Now that I had settled on the image, what should it look
like? Would it be a simple profile or
something more elaborate? Living in the
neighborhood that I do, I have had the pleasure of meeting many who have amazing
body art…and I truly mean art! I asked
around, and I was told Rowan at Bless This Mess was the person I should talk
to. It would be yet another several months
before a happenstance meeting at the Montavilla Street Fair, that Rowan would
enter my world.
Rowan is a tattoo artist.
Like many artists, she looked at me somewhat askance when I introduced
myself and explained what I wanted. (Remember what I said about appearances and
how I don’t necessarily fit the image of a tattooed person?). However, her interest and later excitement
grew after I showed her the photo. A few
days later she sent me a sketch of how she would do the tattoo. A few more exchanges and we set an
appointment.
I would be untrue if I said I wasn’t nervous. A tattoo is permanent…and then there is the
prospect of possible pain…or of a design gone awry. What then?
But Rowan is a true professional.
Watching her procedures before I even bared my arm was impressive and helped allay my fears. There are so many safety precautions, many
mandated by the State and others that just seem a part of her professional demeanor.
Before becoming a tattoo artist, she was
a graphic designer (which explained the quality of her sketch). Her excitement grew as the image slowly
manifested itself on my bicep…as did mine. (Yes, I took the photo, with my iPhone.)
Thoughout this process I learned a lot about tattoos and tattoo parlors. Most of us think of a place we walk into and choose a design out of hundreds on the wall or in a book. Those are called flash shops. Bless This Mess (and Rowan) is not one of those, but instead a custom shop in which a design is specially created that is unique to the customer and to the artist.
Almost four hours later, we were done. I am still carefully applying my skin treatments as the skin heals, but each day the initial redness abates and the true colors become more apparent. It is difficult to see but the colors are basically grays, black and a hint of golden grass in the foreground. What is particularly interesting is the shading and detail in the image of the rhino.
I am thrilled!
In case you are interested, here is a link to my blog about the trip to Africa, and a link to Rowan's shop: